We all know that our dog loves us dearly, but do they trust us? There’s a difference between love and trust. The bond between you and your pet friend is built from the little things of everyday life—every time you give them food, when you go for a walk with them, or when they look at you in a scary situation. But when things go wrong—like a tough day’s walk or not coming when called at the park—you may wonder, “Does my dog trust me?”
In this article, we’ll explain the six signs that your dog trusts you and how you can make that bond even deeper.
1. Grooming tasks have become stress-free
Dogs sometimes need grooming that can be uncomfortable—teeth cleaning, nail trimming, or ear cleaning. If your dog tolerates these tasks without panic or protest, it’s a clear sign that they trust you.
Just like brushing a pug’s back teeth can be a no-brainer, other grooming activities can be awkward. But if your dog tolerates it all without a fight, it means he’s accepted you as his source of safety and comfort.
2. You’re always the center of his attention
When you’re at a park or trail with your dog, and he stops to look at you or come toward you every once in a while, you’re his main focus.
Although the outside world is fascinating to dogs—new smells, people, animals—a dog who “checks in” on you all the time shows that you’re the center of his world. He values your company and knows that no matter how crazy he’s getting, you’re the most important thing to him.
3. His body language is calm and composed
If your dog is relaxed and composed around you, it will show in his body language. His eyes will be soft, his face will be relaxed, and his tail will wag with his whole body.
On the other hand, a dog that doesn’t trust his human will have a stiff body posture, pull away, or act timid. If your dog is comfortable around you, that’s a great sign of trust.
4. Training is fun
Today’s science-based dog training is a far cry from the old-fashioned, rigid rules of the game. It’s a collaborative process in which both human and dog understand and trust each other.
If your dog enjoys your training, listens to you, and acts enthusiastic, it means he trusts that you’re trying to teach him, not dominate him.
5. He sees you as his protector
Sometimes life throws up unexpected moments that can frighten our pet friends—a loud noise, a stranger trying to touch them, or a new environment. If your dog looks at you, hides behind you, or snuggles up to you during these times, it means he has accepted you as his “security blanket.”
He knows you will protect him, and that only comes from a relationship that has complete trust.
6. He wants to be near you at the end of the day
Every dog is different—some love to snuggle under the blankets and sleep next to you, while others just sit on the floor next to you with a paw on your leg. But one thing is common: when he trusts you, he wants to be near you.
Whether he’s extra clingy or keeps his distance, being near you shows that you’re the safest part of his life.
How to Build Trust With Your Dog
If you still think your dog doesn’t trust you completely, don’t worry. This bond is built with time and understanding. Below are some tips to help you deepen this bond.
1. Don’t force your dog
Sometimes we want people to meet our beloved pets and for them to feel comfortable. But if your dog is hesitant or avoiding a new person or place, don’t force it.
He needs to know that you’re always on his side and respect his feelings.
2. Learn dog body language
A wagging tail doesn’t always indicate happiness. There are subtleties in dog body language—like pinning back his ears, licking his tongue, or dragging his feet. These can indicate that he’s stressed.
When you’re able to pick up on his emotions, you can redirect his attention in time and prevent him from feeling uncomfortable.
3. Control your temper
Everyone gets upset at times, but if you yell at your dog too often, it can destroy the trust he’s built up in you.
If you find yourself yelling at your dog frequently, think about why. Are you not consistent with your training? Do you not understand behavior well?
Dog problems are often linked to human behavior.
Conclusion
The bond between dogs and humans is invaluable—but it’s built not just on love but also on trust. If your dog listens to you, wants to be with you, and looks at you even when times are uncomfortable, then rest assured he trusts you completely.
If that trust is a little shaky right now, don’t be discouraged. With love, time, and understanding,
FAQs
Q. How do I know if my dog trusts me?
A. If your dog shows relaxed body language, checks in with you during walks, enjoys training, and stays close during rest, it’s a sign of trust.
Q. Can I rebuild trust if I’ve made mistakes with my dog?
A. Yes, trust can be rebuilt with patience, consistency, and positive reinforcement. Avoid punishment and focus on building a safe environment.
Q. Why does my dog hide during grooming?
A. If your dog hides or resists grooming, it may indicate discomfort or lack of trust. Try to make grooming a positive and calm experience.
Q. Is it okay if my dog doesn’t like cuddling?
A. Yes, every dog has a unique personality. Some show trust by sitting nearby rather than cuddling. Respect their boundaries.
Q. What’s the best way to build trust with my dog?
A. Use gentle handling, avoid yelling, respect their comfort zone, and engage in fun activities like training and play to build a strong bond.